• Still People Pleasing?!

    People pleasing at its core is not about being nice. It’s not even really about other people. It’s about managing other people’s emotional states so you can feel safe. Read that again. It’s…

  • Mentally Overweight…The Book

    She’s here. After six years. After doubt.After wrestling with myself.After questioning whether anyone even needed to hear from me again. For a long time, I convinced myself to stay quiet.I told myself people…

  • WTFourty

    I didn’t glide into 40—I crashed into it.And the first thing I whispered to myself was exactly that:WTFourty… what is this? This wasn’t the version of 40 I imagined.I thought it would feel…

  • Peeling Back

    I’m Done Hoarding What No Longer Serves Me Lately, I’ve been peeling back layers—some intentionally, others by force. Each layer uncovers something new: trauma that was done to me… and if I’m honest,…